Thursday, December 20, 2007

Cheating Already?

So disgusting... I was just in the elevator riding up with two male co-workers. They were openly discussing going out this weekend to get laid. The one saying he was going to do it was JUST married and is going on the honeymoon this upcoming week. Nothing like getting some pre honeymoon action with some bar skank. I met his wife once or twice when she was in getting her wedding gown and she's very pretty and was actually pretty cool considering he's a douche!
I'm the first person to have a slip-up but between the wedding & honeymoon and planning to f-around seems sleazy w/a great big helping of slime! Why get married? I get that marriages fall apart, as do relationships, but seriously this shocked me. I'm not easily shocked. I don't want to get married and cheat, I am not into the idea of cheating anymore. I can't say that I'll never ever in a million years do it again. I'm human and have weak moments etc. I don't hold anything against people NORMALLY, but this guy was openly bragging about it during the entire ride up and they were basically congratulating each other on keeping the player dream alive. It makes little sense. Why get married then? I remember when HE asked HER! He was so excited. Maybe it was all an act and he goes and sleeps with random women all the time but I'd hope that most people make an honest go of it when saying I DO! I'm not being judgemental b/c I've changed my ways. This would have disgusted me at any point of my sneaking around. I hope this isn't a common thing. I want to believe in marriage! It's bad enough that Santa, The Tooth Fairy, and Easter Bunny have been ruined for me! I don't want to believe that this is the new model of marriage!

7 comments:

p0nk said...

assholery! is this guy 16 that marriage is just another conquest to him? I'm no saint, but like you, i don't see why he ever got married if he never had any intention of being faithful when he proposed to her.

Jimbo said...

I am not sure what nationality these guys were, but it is very common for many cultural to have mistresses. The wives know their husbands are doing it and they just turn a blind eye. It was very obvious when I was in Caracas. You would see the fat old men walking down the street with these little hot chicks. We seemed to see more on Wednesdays and nicked named it mistress Wednesday. If the rumors are true, Tony Parker was scamming at his wedding to Eva Longoria.

I am not condoning this kind of behavior, but it goes on all the time. Men will be pigs. But I would think you could at least wait until the honeymoon was over before you start banging bar flies.

p0nk said...

celebs are in a different category, they're so busy boinking each other all the time that i don't think marriage even has a pretense of sexual fidelity attached with them.

Eagle Eye said...
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NotANiceGirl said...

The two guys are Dominican & she's caucasian-but I don't know what her ancestry is. He's just a dog in my book. Hey, shit happens, and people stray at times but he's not even given it a go & he's bragging about it. Today I heard the guy who was in the elevator saying that they went out to a strip bar last night and then a club and he screwed some chick in her car. I think that's repulsive!!!

NotANiceGirl said...

pOnk- he's in his 30's and I just found out that this is his 2nd marriage. Apparently he beat his 1st wife. He's a real gem!

p0nk said...

things like this is why i have to believe in karma...somewhere, somehow, this guy needs some quality alone time with Bubba from cell block "C".